Tag Archives: bdsm

One Little Thing, Honey… or Telling Her You’re Kinky

Congratulations, not just for your budding relationship, but for being conscious of your sexual desires. Do not listen to your friends who say that you need psychological help. Being kinky is not a mental illness!

Male Submission and Art

As some of you may of saw on our sister site, Early to Bed, this art site was posted up on the blog by Julia – but boy oh boy do I love many of these photographs on Male Submission Art as well!

Rough Sex 3: Adrianna’s Dangerous Mind

I don’t know if you guys have checked out the Rough Sex series by one of my favorite directors, Tristan Taormino, but now’s the time! Here’s a series that has some really scorching hot scenes with a variety of stars – integrating straight, queer, and people of color. This third installment with Adrianna Nicole looks to be the hottest one yet.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Ruff Playtime

“Here be dragons.” That’s what they used to write on old maritime maps to mark uncharted waters. This phrase comes to mind as I find myself sitting in a coffee shop on International Women’s Day about to pen an article on how sometimes “No! No! No!” means “Yes”.

The Virginity Debate, BDSM, Porn, and Ethics

A storm of responses and frustrations arose these past weeks with the announcement of Kink.com’s live stream of performer/model Nikki Blue “loosing her virginity” and breaking her hymen on a special event for this evening. Sex-positive and BDSM bloggers shunned Kink.com’s presentation of the traditional sexist ideas of women “loosing their virginity” and castigating it as a sex-negative ploy.

Queering Your Sex Life: Discover Your Inner-Lesbian

What is it with men’s fascination with lesbian sex? Is it all just objectification of women? If so, why wouldn’t we just continue watching porn or objectify women in any particular setting? Why does “woman-on-woman” turn us on so much? I believe there’s something more to do with our attraction to lesbian sex than meets the eye.