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Are there any pills or creams that can make me last longer in bed? by James Nelson
Premature ejaculation is often treated as a result of selfishness -- a guy thoughtlessly getting his rocks off before he's even bothered shifting hers around. I won't say this kind of selfishness never happens, but involuntary premature ejaculators know that the feeling of oncoming release seems as unstoppable as taking your next breath. You can try to recite the stats of every American League player since 1950, but you'll be lucky to get past the Yankees' current batting lineup. And to make it worse you've been trying so hard to hold off blowing your wad that you may not even enjoy it when it happens anyway.
Introducing Toys to New Boys by J-mo
Starting small enables you to treat the introduction of toys as something playful and non threatening. If you start with the life size fire hydrant dildo you picked up in Amsterdam on a whim, you may frighten your new pal before you get a chance to work up to something bigger.
Porn 101: Videos you’ll both enjoy by Hudson Cole
So, you’re looking for a decent plot and a competent acting. Now, I enjoy my porn. Been through a lot. Not once have I ever, ever seen either of these things-- much less both of them together. I’m not saying that it doesn’t exist; I’m just saying that even the best Conquistadors know when to stop wandering the jungle and say, "Fuck it, it ain’t here man."
Why Can’t My Girlfriend Orgasm With Me? by James Nelson
When a woman can't orgasm, a man's likely to take it as a judgment on himself. Then he wants her to come not because she'll enjoy it, but rather because it will prove that he is a real lover. And often enough a woman will start to feel the same way, wanting to come for him rather than for herself. You shouldn't be surprised this rarely works out well.
What if my girlfriend likes her vibrator better than me? by Hudson Cole
Remember when you got a new toy as a kid, and you couldn’t wait to show it off and play with it and learn how it worked? Being an adult with a new toy is no different.
Homo Does Not Always Mean “In the Butt” Bob by J-mo
Just because you like the sight, smell, taste, etc of a dude does not mean you have to insert tab B into slot A(nus).
Introducing: J-mo (as in Ask J the ‘mo) by J-mo
Gay advice columnist J-mo talks about Miss Manners, his favorite sex toy, and more!
Introducing: James Nelson, Sexriffic Advice Columnist by James Nelson
Hetero advice columnist James Nelson talks about bondage with silk neckties, the joys of cunnilingus, and more!
Introducing: Hudson Cole, Advice Columnist Sextraordinaire by Hudson Cole
Hetero advice columnist Hudson Cole reflects on his conservative southern upbringing, the perils of sex in the woods, and more!
