S/M, and kink in general, has a complicated relationship with masculinity. Those who want to submit to a partner can feel like they are surrendering some of their manhood and that wanting to be tied up and controlled makes them less of a man. Guys who want to administer sexy punishments to their loved one may be concerned about being too harsh, demeaning or sexist, especially if their partner is female. Kinky sex doesn’t have to carry a statement about your gender, or your gender politics, if you communicate with your sweetie and take a few things into consideration.
Monthly Archives: November 2009
Porn 101: Videos you’ll both enjoy
November 19, 2009 – 2:01 pm
So, you’re looking for a decent plot and a competent acting. Now, I enjoy my porn. Been through a lot. Not once have I ever, ever seen either of these things– much less both of them together. I’m not saying that it doesn’t exist; I’m just saying that even the best Conquistadors know when to stop wandering the jungle and say, “Fuck it, it ain’t here man.”
